Lowest on the list

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I recently read an article about the dilemma which Somali civilians are facing, hunger crisis and pirate and everything in between  in CNN. Someone commented  they said. "Somalia doesn't offered anything to the world, nor are they helping themselves, lets use the land to evaluate and examine nuclear weapon and keep dumping the toxic as usually". It was pretty devastating, Highly destructive to my eyes. Nevertheless It made me  look upon overall the whole nation of Africa. They lack of something called "forward movement". Every leader puts himself first. What I still haven't came into understanding is it lack of open-mindedness or love of power. 

98% of African nation falls into the dictatorship government.Whether it's Totalitarian, Theocracy, Monarchy. Military dictatorship, Anarchy, Transitional. You name it, the list goes on. The upraising, protest that is taking place in the "Arab world" is an effect brought by "YOUTH". Not just any typical youth "AN Educated youth

 that bloomed from their  cages. Insha'allah they will all successes in their journey. 

I wonder if they asked themselves even once " What can I do to change our nation , To make it better place. Economically, Health care, Education and yeah The protection of our civilians.

It's quite apprehensible that social mobility is what attackers this young civilians. And their leaders are not enjoying the  adjustment that is about to happen. This people love power so much. More than anything . They make the parliament vote for them.OVER AND OVER AND AGAIN AND AGAIN. Wait what is erring  to divide the power into  equally  branches.  The missing pieces in the nation of Africa also happens to be"LAW". Perhaps it would be  beneficially to provide law that declares. "your term starts from this point and ends at this point. nor can you expand your term nor  can they rerun after that time is over". Literally,  Africa lacks  following rules and  regulations.  If someone doesn't step up the game and demand change and laws and rule, or perhaps write a break-up letter to the dictatorship government. Nothing will change and Africa will always be placed in the lowest on the list.

 

In My OWN little world

More than once  I was asked  why I aloof my self from females.   Why don't you have GIRL FRIENDS? It was an ordinary question that I get Now and Again. I simply use to joke around ,  Because "They don't like me" ironic depiction. And perhaps it doesn't go far than that . I was recently asked AGAIN. But this time it came from someone I didn't know much. And he got into deeper than others did. This guy had  the guts to tell me "You are devoted to yourself". 

 >He continues ,  You're basically committed  to  your own little world. Your friendly on  outside margin. but  

tremendous your inner is limited.

I didn't had  desire answering, nor to comment on what he said, which made me excessively irritated.

 I won't mind if that statement of opinion approached from someone who has   possess knowledge of me. 

If I could recall  my eyes glanced at  this young man  less than 2 or 3 times. Let alone knowing him. 

  > He carries it on, Don't miss understand me, but I had keeping you on eyes for the past months or so 

You seem pretty nice girl, and religious, But your also  egoistic.

What? ego Who ?

< You know what? Why don't you keep your certain assumptions to yourself next time. I said and walked away. 

He was lucky It was Almost time for my next class, which I had a test.

Over coming my anger over the "nerd" stranger. I took it into little consideration of what he said. 

I once had a "BEST FRIEND" someone came between us. All the sudden we were detached. We waved at each other, or greeted one another when perceived by sight   , But we were not friends anymore.  It damaged  special  place in my heart. I haven't had a "Friend" after her.  It  takes more to me to call someone a "friend". 

I have more girls in the house. I don't need more. 

After a week or so. The nerd came sat next to me again. And apologizes. And introduced himself. 

After we had a few conversation about school and life.  I suddenly seemed to view him differently.

>Why did you made that comment the other day?  I am just curious,  I asked.

>Well, Every time I see you, you're attached to your books.

< WOW! That is coming out from a nerd . 

   He smiled, true!

>You just seem to be ignoring everyone. Like you will not need any creature.   I view independence as an excellent matter. I also respect that you're self centeredness.

  < I can't believe you have the nerve to say that!  I didn't came here for necessitate of others.  Hopefully we'll will come into agreement that  when  you get females together , lots of truth are spoken not back-fence talk" can we say that is conceptualism in another planet.? 

He laught, You got a point there. Miss Religious, he said.

I persanally view  females as glorious, dignified creatures. I just can't stand rumour. she said he said. nonsence argument. Last but not least My biggest fear "Emotional crises" I have 4 sisters plus a mother . I thing I have enough  females in my life. pluse  I am the kind of person that doesn't not utter freely about what is in my heart. Females  tipically  tend to  share their feeling, and worries.  and ask you if you could related to it. I hate lying. I want to make them feel better at that moment. At the same time, If I say "yes" I could related to it. They expect  me to tell them how it made me feel.  I don't share with people my emotional rack.  That explained why I am stress. Well many say I am not suppose to be a girl more like a man. But I guess it's that I haven't had someone in my life that I could open up to. except  the piece of a letter I write once a year and tear it afterward, I don't even have the guts to read what I wrote. Now You can imagine how bad it is.

Islam spouse

                                                                        Islam

The Couple are two separate individuals and when their love is consummated and when they get married they became one flash. As Allah said “ your wife are like a clothing to you as you are to them. The word “clothing” position as their is nothing between wife and husband, They are clothing to each other in every aspect of life. It also implies adornment and beautification.
AS it deliver a blow to a common question that non-Muslim  ask: Why do does Muslim women cover their body? . To answer that there are load of reason generally however, I want to mention one of those.


A scholar was asked what’s the most thing you love about your wife? He said her beauty and they asked what is the second thing you like about your wife he said her beauty then they asked the 3rd time he said her beauty they asked the 4th time he said her respect for her religion and family and the 5th time he said her respect for me.
As a Muslim women we cover our self because 1st we been told by god not men. 2nd we respect our self and when other look at us they see that we respect our self and we gain respect.
When you are married and you wear a clothing that are too revealing your actually getting other men attention ever action have a consciousness , which leads it to an affair road
When you keep your beauty inside and you revealed to you flash (spouse) truth you will last together surly (insha’allah
Tips to be successful wife/husband
When he/she comes home greet them with a wonderful greeting. Even if You have a bad day and the last think you want to do is talk just give them a kiss, you will surprise to how it can change their feeling for the day.
2nd Imitate them be fully active, play games tells them jokes, chase them around the house. with intention of them not being bored, or even think about to leave the house. Build a feeling that they want to be around you 24/7, miss you when they are not around you

3rd show a gratitude, Thank them for even the tiny nice think they do for you, make them feel grateful


4th ignore argument , it’s a fire to you house. Don’t be contentious, seal it with simply I’m am sorry, even it its not your fault, if you try to balance your world your building a firewood, watch how sweet the argument will end if you say “listen I’m sorry lets be friends again”. Afterward try to talk to them in sweet way to solve the problem. If you disagreement continues just say “ I will be the older child”. Immediately their feels will change, and you will succeed
5th Listen and obey each other, you get what you give, don’t expect to get it before you give it.
6th pray for each other that Allah make your marriage successful,


Never forget to ask Allah ta'ala for the blessing of having a successful marriage that begins in this Dunya and continues on - by the Mercy of Allah ta'ala - into Jannah

My LOVE Day

Why valentine's day, Why can't it be called "LOVE DAY" History says Some experts state that it originated from St. Valentine, a Roman who was martyred for refusing to give up Christianity. upon his dead he devoted his love, wrote a farewell letter to his Love , and signed it "From Your Valentine. Of course others also state different  points. Despite the disagreement but we can all came into agreement that it's love day.

   But, what I still haven't discovered  the answer to is Why show your love only ONE DAY" I don't know about you but I don't want to be with someone that tells me that they love me  or shows the love  they have for me  Once in a year. I believe you should celebrate your love for EACH OTHER as the sun rises and sets.

It's quiet selfishness to wait on a day  when Some other stranger expressed his love  to his lover. Or you might as well make your own day.. MINE IS September 6th ..MAKE your OWN  "LOVE DAY"  Why not . Who cares if other are celebrating or not.. It's good to be unique

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My Children will do it differently

My Children Will Do it Differently.

Out of the ashes of Sahara desert

As they exhale and inhale over dinner

My children will do it Differently

Africa stands a aloof and low from the rest of the nation

My children will do it differently

Hunger became our neighbor

My children will do it differently

pouring our brothers blood became our pleasure

My children will do it differently

Politician became their weapon.

My children will do it differently

Africa ranks  low in economy , lowest in humanity

My children will do it differently

I see it coming

Pain is all we feel and grim is what we see

My children will do it differently

The flash of your father drilling freely in the nail river

I see a change

My children will do it differently

A new list of blessings and wishes to come

So in grief and weary do our heart bleed.

My children will do it differently

Yes Generations of people born and die.

events take their place.

But I SEE a CHANGE

My children will do it differently

I seen winds and waves of new generation

I have stood and watched them grow and glow

perfectly , correctly , Humanly, Economically, Wisely

OUR GENERATION WILL DO IT DIFFERENTLY.

Our LAME poem :)

my soul longs for your arrival, Your sound beats my heart , your presence tingles every cell in my vein, Thinking about you please all my pains,



knowing your by my side relaxes my mind,Having you in my life is no regrets

making you cry with happiness is my biggest goal
Butting smile into your face is my = everyday journey



i will always be there to defeat your nigh mare called loneliness


I will always keep falling in love with you


I will be by your side while you go through the journey of birth


I will be next to, to comfort you and  Cherish  you every ups and downs

Include the king in your life

“It is health that is real wealth and not pieces of gold and silver.”Mahatma Gandhi . Isn't it time to get what is good for us? Mango has been our heirloom in our family.  In this speech I will address the health benefit of mango, many ways it is served, and how it will change your life.

 

Mango is known for it is rich healthy nutrition and vitamin. In recent research study prove that mango fruit protects against colon, breast, leukemia and prostate cancers. Especially mango is very effect on breast and colon cancer. If you are a person who eats mango regularly you are protected against heart attack. Mango is anti-acne in which you would have a very smooth and beautiful skin. It's health benefit is endless the ways you could enjoy it is endless.

You could enjoy mango in many different ways. For the sour mango’s you could eat it with salt and spice which is amazing, mouth watering ways to enjoy it. You can also blend mango, milk, yogurt, and sugar to make incredible smoothie. You could enjoy mango in many ways. The way to enjoy mango is limitless. As many ways as you enjoy mango it will definitely have a very big impact in your life.

Mango has changed many peoples life. It doesn't just have physical health benefit it is also beneficial for the psychology. It will sparkle your day giving you full energy. For the people who are concerned with their looks certainally  mango will bring out your true beauty. Mango has changed many people's attitude, look, and personality. Once you are hooked,  you are set for life.

 The importance and beneficiary of mango to humanity is endless. It is healthy choice, there is many ways you could enjoy it and it will impact your life in an imaginable ways. Mango is known to be king of fruits. Don't you think it is time to include the king in your life?

Sincerely felt left fallin in love alone..

was it a mistake falling in love.

.not knowing love would be painful.

..yesterday you pretended smile for loving me ..

.this isnt what i wishes for in dreams...am so hurted..

.if loving you is a mistake

 then please let me live in dreams

and be single...

feel older then I am

Since I'm the youngest child of 6 , I always felt old compare to other kids. I started school when I was 9 years old. I felt like I was older then my classmates, even though some of them where older then I was. My mother brought me a doll when I was 6 or 7 . I use to play with them during the night under my blanket. I didn't want my family to see me, because I though I was old to play with dolls. I use to change the cartoon channel when someone walks in again I thought I was old for it. I was never out-side playing with the neighborhood kids. I use to watch them from the window and imagine my self playing with them. During lunch time, when my friends beg me to play with them "family game" I always player the mother character even though I use to love to play the daughter but I felt weird about it. Then they start calling me "GRANDMOTHER" I had an skeptical attitude about it .. but I was denying my age or questioning my age. Since I was told that I was born in the middle of the road, and my father and mother where opposing whether I was born on November or September? I doubted if they got the year right? I was always inside, spending time with my mother listening to the News. Approaching conversation with my siblings. And they always made my thought, a good one, thoughtful , exceptional. I mean I was young they could just ignore it and move on or worst tell me to shut up but that didn't happen.


That lifestyle is hunting me until today. I have friends that are older then me. I talk like an old lady there is no "fun" in my life.


I want to act silly once in a while. I want to wake up in the morning


sit down in my PJ' And watch family feud , Disney channel, cartoons, eat ice-cream just sit there, and fell sleep .. No worries about life No worries about the past nor the future. NO worries about school, about the family , money, or car, anything. JUST FOLLOW THE FLOW FREELY .. that is my fair-tale

Man who poured gasoline on his 17year old orphan wife

Faduma Abdi is a 17 year old girl that lives In Nairobi, Kenya fled from Somalia in 1990 when the civil war broke down.
  both her mother and father were killed during the Civil War. Since everyone of her family took their separate path that they believed was safe for them, she does not know where her siblings are right now.


   Faduma was married when she was 14, but her marriage was not successful, but their friendship thrived after the divorce. At the age of 17 she got married again. The friendship of her previous marriage persisted. Her husband was jealous of her previous husband.
    Her new husband was all she had . But to him she was not everything , she said, One morning while I was cooking breakfast the phone rank , while she was in the middle of the conversation ; he poured gas on me and lighted a match ; I suddenly start to burn and he locked the door on me and left . No one knows where he is now. There is no place in my body that is not burned, and I can not move my hands nor feed my self, and the pain that I feel keeps me from sleeping she said
She now Lives with a friend. She can not move her hands, because her skin are attached together due to lack of treatment. Chairs have to be placed between my hands she said when I am about to sleep .


She asks for help. I have no one she said. The only person in my life is now my nightmare.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=APFP6XQMNmM
This is a horrific video showing the handiwork of a deranged man who poured gasoline on his 17year old wife