Saturday, April 10, 2010

Girls turning into Women faster

Girls turning into women faster

A country that is located in the Eastern Africa with tragic
People face difficulty situation each day, fear from war, hunger, shelter, dead. But that does not stop them from the worshiping God and feel affections that they have for each other.

Usually girls get married at very young age. Years 570-571 A.D. this act was done to enlarge the population, When girls reach the age of puberty they were to arrange marriage mostly with a married man since the young men were not mostly wealthy,

Currently the causes of early marriage is not to enlarge population
Since birth control is forbidden in the Islamic religion
“ likewise, it is forbidden if resorted to for fear of poverty. Allah(God) says, “Don’t kill your children for fear of poverty; it is We who provide sustenance for them and you” and due to belief
many women don’t use it. Along with high-priced and some area the birth control are undiscovered or mostly are not familiar with it, because of that family grow larger and have a lots of children.

When a boy is born mostly to the family, the family are satisfied and thrilled.
Its possible that the husband might get married with a second wife, if his first wife does not give birth to any boy, due to cultural standers. When a boy is born the wife gets gifts and family member gather and celebrate for the new born to wish him a bright future

On the other hand when the wife give birth to baby girl is no big deal the only goal in her life is to be a good religion women and a good wife and mother. Typically the family have 4 to 9 children with underprivileged life, living gets harder for the family to feed the children, clothed them, even a roof under their head therefore when the girls reach the age of puberty they are to be arrange marriage to a wealthy man to give her a better life and for the dowry for the family of the pride

Those are not the only reason, there are loads of reason which is impossible to mention all of them in here, but the other that are the most important reason they take this action is build respect and value for the Female and to remain away form the sin that can be caused from single females.
Today people think it’s an awful and unkind to do that to the young females to shadow their future in front of them, but every action has its own advantages and disadvantages, currently 2010 most of teen are getting pregnant at very young age with out marriage and baby grows without a father, frequently most of teen give their child for adaption.

If you compare the present and to past , the present is disgrace, humiliation and embarrassment to carry a baby in middle school and high school, earlier period young females didn’t have education the only experience that they had was a motherhood, which was not dishonor, today that the world is growing when many mention similar situation society looks at it as dreadful image , if you reflect it to the present one many consider the present a dreadful. Historically arrange marriage was to keep the dignity of young females, today young females misplaced their dignity.

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