Why the ladies like the "BAD BOY"?

Why am I writing about this, and not doing my homework ,,writing the essay about paranormal? that  IS UNSOLVED MYSTERY :).  Any who, I was talking to a friend and she had relationship dilemma. I don't know how but our conversation switched to a "good" Guy and "Bad" Boy and why ladies prefer the bad guy.

I did a bit of research and I have realized that most the sociologist say women prefer the BAD BOY, because she knows what to expect from him. Nor will she find herself disappointed down the road. I myself have done a research lol.. seriously I thought about it and I figured it out. The sociologist are right on one side and wrong on the other side. Yes, they do it for "protection" but not the kind of protection that sociologist are aiming at. The "Bad" boy had done it all. Drug, Jail, Women, Gun, you name it. So if he settles down for her, that means SHE is different, than what he saw out there..And there is a very low chance that he will be back on his game. (Because he DONE IT ALL AND SEEN IT ALL) 

Unlike the "good" guy who is more likely and willing to settle for any kind of women. Don't get me wrong I am not saying that is bad. But the Good guy did not do what  he wanted to do.. What do I mean by that, you might ask? . I have seen it with my naked eyes, 20 and 30 year old getting married and ending up in what is known as  unhealthy marriage. Because he wants to do what his pals(who are single) are doing, because he settled for her sooo early. And didn't get the change to do what he wanted.  Again Don't get me wrong. I have also seen a 20 year old who got married and are happily married, but that rarely occurs.

So that "Good guy"" sits with himself one day, and asks himself "why did I get married?"

While the "Bad boy" sits with himself and says, "I done it all.. I AM DONE!!! time to get married" :)

Okay let me make myself clear.. I am not saying go get a bad guy,, .But I am just explaining why they do what they do. (at least that WHAT I came up with )

The best way to get down on your knee ( IN MY World )

Make sure it's something money can't buy...

1) Take her to the beach when the sun goes down, find a private spot, lay down and watch the starts
Tell her that she reminds you of the start, because when you look at her your whole life shines.  Face her and tell her you want  to die in her arms :) (yeah you need to go to jared :) and handed over.

2) Wait untill it's her birthday, make a conspiracy with a family members, (to let you in ..of course. DON'T BREAK IN LOL)  wait untill it's 12:00 sit next to her bed, wake her up wish her a happy d-day and ask her to take you as  her husband. :) It's weird don't do it lol.

3) Take her to dinner, at the top of the tower, write her a poem.
   list the letters of her name. and tell her every letter means love to you, because every time you say her name, it remindes you of how much you love her. GET Down on one kness and ask her to make your dream come true.


4) Tell her you will make sure she cries everyday, (with seriouse face) .. then say..of course tears of joy. Tell her you will make sure her face wrinkle,, of course with laughter. (everytime she is felling down)
Tell her that her  phone won't be unlimited , of course my love for you is .and always will be.. 
Tell her you can't promise her to be the only women that you'll hold on your arms and kiss goodnight..Of course were gann have a baby girl ::.. then asker her if she could help you  achieve your goals....

Things I want to do

 Insha'Allah

Get a Job ( seriously, 2012)

Take a trip to muqdisho and Ethiopia (2012)

Grow my hair ( like it use to be, NO MORE CUTIING going to take care of it.2012)

Find a love ( unlimed, I am not going to pick a year lol)

Learn Arabic( start 2012)
Take summer school (2012)

Get a real license (lol, befor I GET catch 2012)

Get involve in the community (volunteer time 2012)

Create a Non profite organization for education (2012) (back home, time to give back)

Buy a car ( Yes, GOT TO, NEED TO )

Sub in school( do I really want to  do this for a career 2013)

Take a trip to Arab world ( Qatar,,, or maybe Dubai 2013)

 Take a summer school (2013)

INSHA'ALLAH

Graduate with bachelors (20..?)

Start my Master degree (20...?)

Start my career (20..?)

BUY a NEW CAR :) (2014)

build schools in Somalia( 1st goal and the hardest, Insha'Allah)

Take a trip some where..(20...?)

Find a job in the Qatar ( Yes, I so love that country 20..?)

Finish my master on Education administrations ( 2015)

Get Married (2016 :) ( make it happen. ..IDK WHY I am laughing at this )

GO TO HAWAII ( for honeymoon :) 

Work for the UN

GO TO HAJ (20...?)(INSHA'ALLAH)

GO BACK TO SOMALIA (2016)

Things I just want to do>>>>> with out any ORDER

Run a marathon.

Watch a live , Man United playing

Go to Qatar, 2021 For FIFA WORLD CUP  ( I THINK..have you SEEN HOW BEAUTIFUL THEIR STADIUMS ARE ..BREATH TAKING  )  

HAVE AT LEAST 6 KIDS ( INSHA'ALLAH) :)

Get a degree in Politic Science  ( iN OXFORD UNI )

Dance in the Rain  :) NO I AM NOT CRAZY

Go to women Only Beach.

Ride a horse  ( YES I live in TX.. AND DID NOT RODE A HORSE SHAME ON ME :)

Go a week  without technology

GO TO FRANCE, EGYPT, Caribbean, Bali, JUJU, Fiji, Kuwait," Oman** ,

Build a masjid in remote area 

Write a book ( and Publish it )

Adopt a kids

Learn to  belly dance :)

*Get picked up by PROFESSIONAL  wrestler on ONE HAND and get thrown over the ring ( on safe surface of course :)

*Sleep for  a day  

*Finish the quraan in the month of Ramadan.

*Pierce my Belly Button ( That must happen before a kid comes ) :)

*Buy a house ( with a beautiful view) 

Work for UNICEF.

** Those are few that I can think of right now.. (Yes there is more :)