Why am I writing about this, and
not doing my homework ,,writing the essay about paranormal? that IS UNSOLVED MYSTERY :). Any who, I was talking to a friend and she
had relationship dilemma. I don't know how but our conversation switched to a
"good" Guy and "Bad" Boy and why ladies prefer the bad guy.
I did a bit of research and I have
realized that most the sociologist say women prefer the BAD BOY, because she
knows what to expect from him. Nor will she find herself disappointed down the
road. I myself have done a research lol.. seriously I thought about it and I
figured it out. The sociologist are right on one side and wrong on the other
side. Yes, they do it for "protection" but not the kind of protection
that sociologist are aiming at. The "Bad" boy had done it all. Drug,
Jail, Women, Gun, you name it. So if he settles down for her, that means SHE is
different, than what he saw out there..And there is a very low chance that he
will be back on his game. (Because he DONE IT ALL AND SEEN IT ALL)
Unlike the "good" guy who
is more likely and willing to settle for any kind of women. Don't get me wrong
I am not saying that is bad. But the Good guy did not do what he wanted to do.. What do I mean by that, you
might ask? . I have seen it with my naked eyes, 20 and 30 year old getting
married and ending up in what is known as
unhealthy marriage. Because he wants to do what his pals(who are single)
are doing, because he settled for her sooo early. And didn't get the change to
do what he wanted. Again Don't get me
wrong. I have also seen a 20 year old who got married and are happily married,
but that rarely occurs.
So that "Good guy"" sits with himself one
day, and asks himself "why did I get married?"
While the "Bad boy" sits with himself and says, "I
done it all.. I AM DONE!!! time to get married" :)
Thats a good point of view eventhough subjective..i Think your right about the good guy being frustrated and yerning to do what he hadn't done and not having the strength to do what he wanted prior to getting married..good
ReplyDeleteAt the end of the day, (real)WOMEN are attracted to(real)MEN and men are attracted to women, so, if a man acts like a man and comes of as strong, rough and tough etc then a women would be attracted to him regardless of his looks, but the good man or the weak man, well, no one wants a pussy cat! just give him a bowl of milk and his happy, no she want a lion that will go for the kill
the homework isn't gointg to do itself...lol!!!!!!!!!!
yeah, no one wants a pussy cat.(i like how you phrased it ).... back to the homework hahaha...
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