RULE #1. For those of you who are sheikh, a little advice ; Please don’t go to her parents if she even don’t know your name! Yes, that is the method , But I am sorry. You are not getting married to her father and mother. If you decide to jump over her. BUMERR!!! it’s your loss. If you want to do it the old way, atleast let her know you or show her you face, Asalamu Aleykum won’t hurt!!! . Some time you see people now and again but they don’t see you!! Or pay attention to you. SOME OF US WEAR GLASSES YOU KNOW !!
RULE # 2 .BFF ..BUMMER!!! I don’t know how much I can emphasize this , DON’T NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCE TRY TO BE BFF WITH THE FATHER OR THE BROTHER. In order to get to her
RULE #3 . Real talk! Okay you guys know each other for while now. You’re getting there. You’re ready for the next step. Out of the blue . He goes to her parents. She comes home minding her own business, parents expose to her what had took place today. WAIT, Shouldn’t I be the one to know this first. BOMMER!!! She calls him, hey why didn’t you tell me.
I thought we were cool with this? What is wrong with you. BOMMMMMER !!! DON’T EVER DO THAT. Even If you are 100% sure , always KEEP HER IN TOUCH. Before you go to her parents.
RULE # 4. When the agreement takes place. Some people tend to be present for all of 3 meals. BUMMMER !!! STAY AWAY FROM HER HOUSE!!!. Yes you must greet the family now and again. But don’t go to her house 24/7.
Rule # 5. Showering her with GIFT to get close to her BUMMER!!. Exception are on especial accusations. Once in a while.!!!
Rule #6. Phone calls 24/ 7, Hey I called you why didn't you answer. You might say, That sound like "women" Trust me , some men do it Bummer!!
Seems reasonable! Women want to be treated as human beings, no matter their belief or culture - and they deserve to be. They are not cows, or rugs - to be traded like goods. Modesty is laudable; virtue is good. But games, I agree with you, are not appropriate when two people are committed to one another for LIFE. There's no real commitment possible when one party to the agreement isn't given an opportunity to meaningfully agree.
ReplyDeleteVery interesting! I'm stopping by from the A to Z challenge and I look forward to reading more from you.
ReplyDeleteI HATE #6.
ReplyDeleteWith a passion.
Even from my mom.
@Holly: It's absolutely reasonable to take the extra steps when committing to the person. Thanks your stopping by.
ReplyDelete@Misha. Tell me about it, it's bit irritating.
Thanks for stopping by ...cheers