My driving techniques

How to over come my driving fear. I can drive when I have someone with me. Unfortunately, I haven't driven by myself. but I need to drive my self to school. So I gave my self one month. By February 14 I must be able to drive myself .

So, I will start it with small steps. Tomorrow I will first time drive a car by myself lol. I won't go far just around the block. I will do that for 3 or 2 days
28/ Friday Apt
Sat/ apt
Sun 30th Sam
Mon or Friday Fd
:)

Get a license by the send of before January 14th
:) problem solved and yeah get a car lol  

Islamic Dating Site

 For privacy reasons, I will not mention the name of the site, but I have recently joined Islamic dating site, nothing serious. I have always had this mentality, I thought people that join dating site are either old and never married, divorced, or unattractive lets face it, Alhamdulilah the creation of Allah swt is so beautiful, but we don't look the same. And their is legitimate reason behind it.

I happen to be right, most of them  are desperate I have joined the site 3 days ago which took 24 hours to process, I was officially there for 2 days, you cannot imagine how many messages I got. And No I did  not put any picture up. No income was mentioned, nor education. So I don't really see what would drive them to send me a message.

What I discovered is that the website tells you the newly joined. So they just sit there and wait for the new people and send them bunch of messages. And most of them were in their late 40 or 50. I did write  my real age in there, which is 3 times younger than theirs. 

My question now is, if these people are really looking of a soul mate. Why target the younger ladies. Would you not want someone that has the  same mentality as you. I am not saying younger = un-mature, but lets face it, it will always be hard for both of you to function well in a relationship if you have such a wide age gap. 

Then I thought maybe they're there to have fun. Just talk to someone in Halal way (that what they say, don't ask me) 

I don't want to give a negative view about online dating ,I mean some of them did look serious. But there are few that are just NOT-SO SERIOUS.

If you are going to join one of them and you're serious about it, watch out for the players. You will be surprised.

If you are going to do it, do it with the right intention. 

Why I started blogging

When ever I read other blogs, it just reminds me of why I started blogging in the first place. I enjoy so much to see, my blog friends disappear and reappear their life changed, whether they graduated or got married, or had a baby, took a vacation. It's just nice to keep up with their life and see them grow as the person.

I usually envy them and I proud of them at the same time, even though I don't know them as a person. It's always nice to see people doing something good with their life.

Till Next time <3 Happy blogging

October update

WOW, it's over already ? really, it's me or did it fly by. Alhamdulilah it was a good month, Got to go home and spend Eid with the family which was fantastic. 

I started working yeey, that is a good thing lol. I'm making Money. Even though I am transferring spring 2013 can't wait. Dorm lifestyle  is a life I can not take.  Speaking of dorm. I recently started a blog page titled " Life in University for Muslims girls" :)

 http://universitylifeformuslimgirls.blogspot.com/

GO AND CHECK IT OUT. please leave me a question if you have any. (or simple leave a comment) I had many many questions about uni, Which I found no answer to, so this blog is to answer the unanswered questions and concerns. I will also post videos and write about question that occur to me.(From experience bases :) 

muslim

"I am so very glad that I am a Muslim. Islam is my life. Islam is the beat of my heart. Islam is the blood that courses through my veins. Islam is my strength. Islam is my life so wonderful and beautiful. Without Islam I am nothing, and should Allah ever turn His magnificent face from me, I could not survive." <3<3

September update

September was a busy busy busy month. When Ramadan ended school started, right after that my sister got married on September 1st, it was a great night alhamdulilah everything went well with the help of Allah swt. Alhamdulilaah,it was a great month, We all miss her. May Allah bless her house with love and care, and little cute/healthy babies. :)

Last week, September 20th was my Birthday, since I was away from home, that week I figured it would be a boring birthday, and I felt old.. :) but my dear friends had a surprise birthday dinner for me. Over all it was a great day, And I ask swt for another blessed year, May I reach the next year.

So, I went back to  University, great school. But some how it's really depressing. So, I decide to transfer  next semester and stay home. Allah swt know the best. But I hope they accept my pray me ...

Geesiga Gambarka Doonayoo

Geesiga Gambarka doonayo aan kuu Geeraaro.

Gumeeysi  Allah Ka sokoow rag baa naga saaray

Guul Ragbaa Gaashaan uqaatay

Garasho La’aan rag baa wadan ku hogaamiyaya

Geesiga Gambarka doonayoo Gaarso Caalamka

Geesiga Gambarka Doonayoo Gaabso hadaadan garsaneeyn  

Geesiga Gambarka doonayoo gaajada ka saar Gurigaaga

Geesiga Gambarka doonayoo Hogaanso Goobjoogta

Geesiga Gambarka doonayoo  Gobalada Somalia  Gaarsii  Great Britain

Geesiga Gambarka doonayoo,

Ha Gudoomin Gambarka  hadaa ku dayaneeyso Gudigii hore

Ha Gudoomin Gambarka hadaa waxtarka gaabineeysid

Ha Gudoomin Gambarka hadaa Guul uhogaami neeynin

Ha Gudoomin Gambarka hadeey Gacan wax qaado kuugu taal

Ha Gudoomin Gambarak hadeey Gacan wax qabato kuugu oolin

Ha Gudoomin haadan geesi aheeeyn.   

I am back !!

I haven't blog for a while, the main reason being, I just don't have time to sit and write any more. I guess the older you get the more complicated your life gets, and more responsibility falls on you.

With that been said, I will try to fit blogging in my crowded schedule, as the fall semester begins. The summer session were busier than I expected to be honest, and Ramadan coming along, I barely have time for my self. 

Any who Insha'Allah I will have a week of freedom, other than packing for Uni. I want to say  Eid Mubarak to all the Muslims around the word, I want to wish you a long and health life. May your fasting and salah and du'a be accepted, may you be among the loved once. With that been said, I am getting ready to start my second year of Uni. Yes, time flies by. Hang in there I will write you my graduation post lol.. Insha'allah. Alhamdulilaah it had been easy process it was fantastic year. And I ask Allah swt to bless me with another fantastic year. 

September is My Bday AND I AM GETTING READY TO GO CRAZY.!!! nothing wild or haram don't get me wrong, But I just want to remember this Birthday. I am usually not a Birthday person but this time I will make sure It's one to remember, May I reach with full health and happiness Insha'allah. Amiin

Oh by the way, I will be blogging more now, Since I have a night shift on weekends. lol  Just to keep me up... Insha'Allah. .. till next time stay safe and be happy. Again EID MUBARAK KULU CAAM WA'ANTUM BI KHEERY ..Have a GREAT Eid

Indepedent day

July 1 AKA 1 Luuliyo .. Insha'Allah Next year, we will be in a better place than we're today.

violation of Dirac

I have two problems with this one: First of all, Ladies how far are you willing to go with this? Wasn't the original dirac ( enough see through) Why do you have to style it in a away that it shows more skin.

Secondly, they recently changed that style to sari style. 100% Dirac violatic. They are taking away our culture not only that but the religion violation too.

I demand for the Original dirac style back, Or this case will make it to the suprem court. And I will win, when I complain about the emotional crises I went thought because of this lol

To those who feel sorry for themself due to their color

Yes, I have time to blog nowadays, Freshman year of Uni is over, seems like it was yesterday when I graduted from high school. Any who, I am still taking summer school, Planing on getting a job, insha'allah ( pray for me ).

All my life I have been around Africans( to be specific Blacks) When I started Uni there was only 1%  of black students. The rest were white. Now My DEAR LOVELY PEOPLE (Somalis ) don't consider themself black. They don't hate on them, but they claim their ancestor are from the arab world. Personally that bothers me, geographically we are located in the  continent of Africa. With that been said, we don't have problem beeing called black. My judgement is not impair nor am I taking side here, but I have encountared, many sitautions where somalis fight to prove they're Africans not only that but pure black. At the end of the day we are black. But some of the black people(Other than Somalis) feels sick to their stomach just because they are black. They feel less, when they are around others who are not black. They complain about being spoted, and being diffenent. They complaine about it. Wallahi It Makes Me Sick to My Stomach when they feel sorry for themself because of their skin color. Many use lightening lotion, skin brightnening cream. Hopping and wishing to get lighter skin. Subhan'allah, man made iteams won't /can't change the skin Allah swt gave you. IMPOSSIBLE. Look what happends when you mess with gods creation, just take a look at Micheal Jackson.

Be proud of your skin color.

Unless I Allow him.

Unless I Allow him.

No man  can tell me not to walk on wardheegleeye

No man can tell me when to fly or not to fly to afgooye

No man can tell me not to clime the mountains of mugdisho

No man can tell me not to fish the on the rivers of Ras Kambodi.

No man can tell me not to buy coffee in  kismaayo

No man can tell me not to eat sambuus in  lascaanood .

No  human can stop me from Somali , not you not them

I will kick the rocks of taleex as I wish and how I wish

I will swim in the beach of liido, as low as I can

I will climb the mountains of muqdisho as High as I want

You can’t stop me.

Unless I allow you to stop me

unless I allow you

You can’t hurt me.

I Have Dreams

I have a dreams that my son will be walking free in greater Somalia

I have a dreams that my daughter will play in the sand of liibo with no fear

I have a dreams that one day I will pick the phone and  have the opportunity to order not Pizza ,but canjeero :)

I have a dreams that I will stand next to Somali boys and girls when I graduate  not white and Asians

I have a dreams that one day  I will only speak “Afsomali” and not have to speak any other language

I have a dreams that I will live in a days where I will see the Somali people forget qabyalad, and will focus on “Qaranka

I have a dreams that Somalia will change their nick name from third world country to first world country.

I have dreams to wake up one morning and not see qarax iyo qasaro on the headline.

I have a dreams that one day these words will disappear darood and hawiye and somalinimo will apprear 

I have dreams , that I wish it was not a dream.

Is mawlid bidah?

I grew up in a house hold that mawlid was a holiday, we celebrated.  I have never thought that there was a controversy over Mowlid. . My father is Sheikh, as I was growing up I basically followed my dad. I still do. I consider my father a VERY wise guy, very open minded, if you disagree with him, his arguments are based on reliable resource, either the kutab or hadith. (He won't say I heard that or I Think SO, nor such and such said that) very straight forward. Of course that is what I like about "Sufi" unlike others who are willing to make their own rules. Every Friday night His heer (group of sheikhs) would sit in the balcony and do their stuff dikri (seerah, read Quran on people and nasheeds are sung...etc...)And every other sheikh I knew was in his group.  My point here is I have never left their territory I was under their wings. Then I met a guy who questioned everything my dad taugh me. Alhamdulillah I have a decent knowledge of Islam. So whenever I disagree with him, he wound send me ayah and he would translated it. (ON HIS OWN WAY of course). Then in the month of Rabi Awal he had the guts to tell me “Mowlid is bidah” Yes, I broke up with him lool J.K... But that is not the point; the point is this kid was Aqwan. So, it basically made me wonder, so I did a bit of research just to see where the majority Islam scholars  stand at this.

Now, A bid'ah is anything newly invented in the deen.. And most of philosophers argue, why you would invent 3” rd Eid... There is only two... And who in this dunyah loves Mohammed (Sallal laahu Alaihi Wasallam) then that Sahaba, if they didn't do it... who are you to celebrate mowlid...  (UNDERSTANDABLE) common sense, right?

The first Mawlid (celebration of the prophet Mohammed’s birthday) by Sunni Muslims was organized by Muzaffar ad-Din ibn Zain al-Din, who was the ruler of Irbil (in Iraq), in Hijri year of 604. Those ceremonies which were organized with long-term preparations were attended by all people. Muzaffar ad-Din invited Islamic scholars, student of knowledge and Sufis from the neighboring regions to Irbil.

 The prophet said, “He who innovates something in this matter of ours that is not of it, will have it rejected.” Recorded in, Bukhari and Muslim. Also the prophet said, “Whoever does an act which is not in agreement with our matter, will have it rejected.” Recorded by, Muslim.

Mufti Taqi Usmani wrote, that "if certain conditions are met, then such a gathering is good". However, he suggests that the prevalent mawlid gatherings are an innovation and are thus forbidden…

Even though it’s not Sunnah, other scholars say they’re not inventing, nor adding anything to the deen...

Where do I stand you ask ..., in the middleJ... I will not say its bidah AND I won’t say it’s not …

Why the ladies like the "BAD BOY"?

Why am I writing about this, and not doing my homework ,,writing the essay about paranormal? that  IS UNSOLVED MYSTERY :).  Any who, I was talking to a friend and she had relationship dilemma. I don't know how but our conversation switched to a "good" Guy and "Bad" Boy and why ladies prefer the bad guy.

I did a bit of research and I have realized that most the sociologist say women prefer the BAD BOY, because she knows what to expect from him. Nor will she find herself disappointed down the road. I myself have done a research lol.. seriously I thought about it and I figured it out. The sociologist are right on one side and wrong on the other side. Yes, they do it for "protection" but not the kind of protection that sociologist are aiming at. The "Bad" boy had done it all. Drug, Jail, Women, Gun, you name it. So if he settles down for her, that means SHE is different, than what he saw out there..And there is a very low chance that he will be back on his game. (Because he DONE IT ALL AND SEEN IT ALL) 

Unlike the "good" guy who is more likely and willing to settle for any kind of women. Don't get me wrong I am not saying that is bad. But the Good guy did not do what  he wanted to do.. What do I mean by that, you might ask? . I have seen it with my naked eyes, 20 and 30 year old getting married and ending up in what is known as  unhealthy marriage. Because he wants to do what his pals(who are single) are doing, because he settled for her sooo early. And didn't get the change to do what he wanted.  Again Don't get me wrong. I have also seen a 20 year old who got married and are happily married, but that rarely occurs.

So that "Good guy"" sits with himself one day, and asks himself "why did I get married?"

While the "Bad boy" sits with himself and says, "I done it all.. I AM DONE!!! time to get married" :)

Okay let me make myself clear.. I am not saying go get a bad guy,, .But I am just explaining why they do what they do. (at least that WHAT I came up with )

The best way to get down on your knee ( IN MY World )

Make sure it's something money can't buy...

1) Take her to the beach when the sun goes down, find a private spot, lay down and watch the starts
Tell her that she reminds you of the start, because when you look at her your whole life shines.  Face her and tell her you want  to die in her arms :) (yeah you need to go to jared :) and handed over.

2) Wait untill it's her birthday, make a conspiracy with a family members, (to let you in ..of course. DON'T BREAK IN LOL)  wait untill it's 12:00 sit next to her bed, wake her up wish her a happy d-day and ask her to take you as  her husband. :) It's weird don't do it lol.

3) Take her to dinner, at the top of the tower, write her a poem.
   list the letters of her name. and tell her every letter means love to you, because every time you say her name, it remindes you of how much you love her. GET Down on one kness and ask her to make your dream come true.


4) Tell her you will make sure she cries everyday, (with seriouse face) .. then say..of course tears of joy. Tell her you will make sure her face wrinkle,, of course with laughter. (everytime she is felling down)
Tell her that her  phone won't be unlimited , of course my love for you is .and always will be.. 
Tell her you can't promise her to be the only women that you'll hold on your arms and kiss goodnight..Of course were gann have a baby girl ::.. then asker her if she could help you  achieve your goals....

Things I want to do

 Insha'Allah

Get a Job ( seriously, 2012)

Take a trip to muqdisho and Ethiopia (2012)

Grow my hair ( like it use to be, NO MORE CUTIING going to take care of it.2012)

Find a love ( unlimed, I am not going to pick a year lol)

Learn Arabic( start 2012)
Take summer school (2012)

Get a real license (lol, befor I GET catch 2012)

Get involve in the community (volunteer time 2012)

Create a Non profite organization for education (2012) (back home, time to give back)

Buy a car ( Yes, GOT TO, NEED TO )

Sub in school( do I really want to  do this for a career 2013)

Take a trip to Arab world ( Qatar,,, or maybe Dubai 2013)

 Take a summer school (2013)

INSHA'ALLAH

Graduate with bachelors (20..?)

Start my Master degree (20...?)

Start my career (20..?)

BUY a NEW CAR :) (2014)

build schools in Somalia( 1st goal and the hardest, Insha'Allah)

Take a trip some where..(20...?)

Find a job in the Qatar ( Yes, I so love that country 20..?)

Finish my master on Education administrations ( 2015)

Get Married (2016 :) ( make it happen. ..IDK WHY I am laughing at this )

GO TO HAWAII ( for honeymoon :) 

Work for the UN

GO TO HAJ (20...?)(INSHA'ALLAH)

GO BACK TO SOMALIA (2016)

Things I just want to do>>>>> with out any ORDER

Run a marathon.

Watch a live , Man United playing

Go to Qatar, 2021 For FIFA WORLD CUP  ( I THINK..have you SEEN HOW BEAUTIFUL THEIR STADIUMS ARE ..BREATH TAKING  )  

HAVE AT LEAST 6 KIDS ( INSHA'ALLAH) :)

Get a degree in Politic Science  ( iN OXFORD UNI )

Dance in the Rain  :) NO I AM NOT CRAZY

Go to women Only Beach.

Ride a horse  ( YES I live in TX.. AND DID NOT RODE A HORSE SHAME ON ME :)

Go a week  without technology

GO TO FRANCE, EGYPT, Caribbean, Bali, JUJU, Fiji, Kuwait," Oman** ,

Build a masjid in remote area 

Write a book ( and Publish it )

Adopt a kids

Learn to  belly dance :)

*Get picked up by PROFESSIONAL  wrestler on ONE HAND and get thrown over the ring ( on safe surface of course :)

*Sleep for  a day  

*Finish the quraan in the month of Ramadan.

*Pierce my Belly Button ( That must happen before a kid comes ) :)

*Buy a house ( with a beautiful view) 

Work for UNICEF.

** Those are few that I can think of right now.. (Yes there is more :)